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Temp leave, Still around but just need time - FoxSasha - 06-02-2017 I know, i haven't been Active lately..And ive a few reasons why.. Sadly these reasons are part of a pain in the ass called Life, and its DLC Life is an asshole. Theres gonna be some medical terms in this, i will try to explain them. Otherwise TLDR, Lots of work, lots of emotional stress, and medical issues with the wife forces me to divert my time to well..life. What games i do play, arent enjoyable to me atm, and purely just blowing something up to take some kind of stress out, something I DO NOT WANT TO DO TO THE COMMUNITY. I am not leaving, We just need time to recover. Summary.. #1 Work schedule is hell, im working almost all the time, and ontop of that things keep changing, so im pretty tied up with that. #2 Medical Issues with the wife. Alot of you might not understand this, and i might even put a spoiler box in here do to the fact, its about "the lady parts" but ill summarize it here instead. Basically, shes had issues that cause her extreme pain, and weve since been to the doctor and been told the reasons why, and how to fix it, but in a devastating blow to her and myselves..Kids are no longer an option for us. Spoilers below contain the medical info, for those that wanna know. Spoiler Summary is, She had cysts on her ovaries causing her extreme pain, these are filling with blood and the only way to stop them is to go on birth control or get pregnant to stop periods. But, we've discovered that she has a disease called Endometriosis, an abnormal growth around the reproductive areas that has gotten so bad, it has fused all of it together. To stop the cysts and this disease fully, the operation known as a Hysterectomy would have to happen, aka: "Removing it all..reproductive organs too." At 35, that's way to young for someone to have to endure that, but to us both it causes the heavy blow that it is now a slim non-existent Miracle chance for kids, and birth control to correct the pain now, of course..also eliminates that chance. I know, i got mem+ not long ago and sadly i went inactive with all this going on after getting it, I don't feel great about that, but know this is not me leaving forever, Just, We need time to heal, time to think, and time to recover. And sadly, this is life, and welcome to adult.. But it comes first. This community is great, and im glad im part of it, sorry for ranting like this, but, ill try to see you guys all again soon. RE: Temp leave, Still around but just need time - Unpoke - 06-02-2017 Life always has to come first, I wish the best for you and your wife, keep us updated maybe if possible? As for kids, of course adoptions always an option - it's nice to give kids a good life who otherwise may not. RE: Temp leave, Still around but just need time - CoachGrump - 06-02-2017 Holy fucking shit, that is so fucked, I am so sorry. Take all the time you need pal, we love ya here. RE: Temp leave, Still around but just need time - Kcat - 06-02-2017 Sorry to hear that man D: I hope all goes well in that emotional process for you and your wife. Stay strong! RE: Temp leave, Still around but just need time - Zott - 06-02-2017 Man I still remember when you first joined. You were an absolute joy to have around and you've always had my back even though we didnt talk much. Stay safe man and I hope it all gets worked out for you. I'm routing for you guys. RE: Temp leave, Still around but just need time - Beebee1303 - 06-02-2017 I hope everything gets better soon fast, you'll be in my prayers. RE: Temp leave, Still around but just need time - Poisonous Ass Juice - 06-02-2017 I wish your wife a fast and painless recovery. Take all the time you need Fox. RE: Temp leave, Still around but just need time - Shadow_man43 - 06-07-2017 I don't even know you fox, but just reading this... Jesus!!! Don't worry about it man, take all the time you need, hope that your wife gets better tho